Do you spend a lot of time by yourself, viewing pornography, masturbating, arranging sexual encounters, fantasizing about , engaging in “cyber-sex,” fantasizing about relationships in which you have total control and acting on these fantasies aggressively?
Are you incapable of feeling remorse or guilt when you lose control of your sex drive, when you can no longer view your partners as human beings but things? And your actions as devoid of consequences?
No one can stay with a sex addict, blissfully ignorant of the addiction in between. What happens when the compulsion leads to sex with others who don’t value the sex casually? Wear and tear show. Doubts surface, especially if your partner isn’t present or near. Stalking and obsession take hold, leaving you with the inability to meet your immediate needs sensibly.
These situations may sound melodramatic, awkward, and sappy at their worst, But don’t let those qualities deter you from taking serious action. Just because life doesn’t happen flawlessly, like a movie or a book, doesn’t mean it’s not worth dealing with. They happen.
I have been a successful counselor for both couples and individuals. Listen to your head, particularly in matters of the heart and body. And if your mind isn’t in shape, then I have a strong feeling my methods could improve you and be the perfect match.
Contact Dr. Gluck at (212) 599-3195
Getting Confidence in Relationships with Hypnosis
Hypnosis works for many specific issues like weight-loss and anxiety, but not many people know that hypnosis can deal with larger issues that might plague someone’s life: most notably, confidence.
As we enter the month of romance, many men and women are going to need to initiate certain steps to prove their love. Men are willing to take great steps to make Valentine’s Day a memorable day. While they might have the biggest box of chocolates or the best dinner reservation, they still won’t get their message across unless they have one crucial ingredient: confidence.
Hypnosis can work past the anxiety, bad memories and self-esteem issues that often stymie successful connection to another person. I always want to emphasize that hypnosis isn’t some magical thing that gives you confidence, but it is a neurological therapy that cures the issues that get in the way of confidence. And for Valentine’s Day, whether it’s erectile dysfunction or anxiety, I will get rid of the problems that get in the way of confidence.
So while hypnosis can’t get you confident, between you and me, I want you to call my office to get confidence. I’ve been doin’ this for 35 years. 212-599-3195.
Can Life Coaching Improve Your Dating Skills?
Let’s talk about dating. Remember dating? It used to exist. Now, everything is online and here is some of my advice for you.
One is, don’t go online. The ability to walk over to another person, introduce yourself, give them a business card and say, “Listen, this who I am. I don’t know you, you don’t know me, but I would love to have a cup of coffee with you.
Now, if you are able to accept the fact that there’s going to be a lot of rejection involved, but at least you show that you have the courage, you have the confidence to say, “This is who I am. Look me up online. I’m single, I’m not involved, and I’d like to get to know you. If you’re open to that, great.”
The ability to look in a person’s eyes — as opposed to texting them, as opposed to going through the Internet where people lie about just about everything — is a skill that you might just want to develop.
Dating can be extremely fascinating, if you eliminate the fear and you eliminate the bullshit. Try it. You might like it.
You might say what I just told you to do, I could not possibly do! That is why you need life coaching. I will show you how to get into a person’s personal without threatening them.
I will show you how to communicate in a way that’s comfortable, how to create instant intimacy, how to create a sense of you’re a safe person and not a nut! I will show you how to date in a way that will make you an expert dater, and at the same time, not a liar. This is an adventure you’re going to want to take.
Go here to find out how to improve your dating and relationship skills.
Hypnosis for Better Orgasms
It sounds crazy, but hypnosis can be used for better orgasms. A lot of people (mostly women, but certainly men too) come to me either unable to orgasm completely or unable to orgasm enough. Not only do their sexual needs go unfulfilled, but the disparity in orgasms can lead to relationship problems.
I start the treatment by analyzing the root causes of the lackluster orgasms. Perhaps there is some underlying anxiety; repressed memories; relationship problems; whatever the case may be.
Once that is determined, I will use a form of neuroplasticity and rational cognitive coaching to mitigate any emotional or mental factors that disrupt your sex life.
Intimacy Issues: Overcoming Fear of Rejection
Intimacy is a tricky word. We can be intimate with a business partner, a daughter, and our wife, in a different way for each. Intimacy with a business partner could be a professional intensity or an intellectual kinship. Intimacy with a daughter could be an emotional effusiveness. And intimacy with a wife, of course, will probably mean having a sexual component.