If you’re lonely, you don’t deserve to be.
You know you long to connect with another person. What’s more, you know that you need to. Don’t let yourself slump comfortably into believing that you’ll be spending the rest of your life in isolation. Self-deception can be alluring during hard times.
It might be safe to stay motionless, not caring that you are spiraling into a hole of numbness and despair. But it’s not impressive if your attitude keeps you from contributing value in your personal and professional life.
Before you know it, your inactivity will cause people to lose interest. You can continue to practice resistance, pretending that it doesn’t matter. And you might succeed. But eventually, in order to even stay independent, you’ll realize how crucial – and intelligent – it is to find partners and allies. I can teach you how to get them sophisticatedly, without being desperate and destructive.
I’ve talked plenty about sustaining, repairing, and improving relationships. For many, embarking on a single bond can be difficult, especially after painful experiences. If you’ve been pouring your energies into withholding from social contact – from the pleasure of human companionship, even when it is good for you – but lack the confidence or ability to stop, hypnosis can help you let go.
It is rational to be social, to reach out. Therapy will open your mind to a form of self-understanding that doesn’t circle itself to no end. You will learn to understand who you are, what you can bring to the table, and how to express yourself in order to form the connections you need.
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