If you’re lonely, you don’t deserve to be.
You know you long to connect with another person. What’s more, you know that you need to. Don’t let yourself slump comfortably into believing that you’ll be spending the rest of your life in isolation. Self-deception can be alluring during hard times.
The issue of dating is the perfect embodiment of what I have to offer my clients because it requires equal part hypnosis and life-coaching.
Let’s start with hypnosis. A lot of problems that emerge during the quest for a mate involve anxiety, low self-esteem/low confidence, and bad memories. These are mainly psychological issues that lead to behavioral problems — poor communication during dates, awkwardness, poor sexual performance and more.
Manhattan has the highest percentage of single people in New York City – where the world of love, romance, dating, and sex can simply kill you.
Needless to say, competition is fiercest when part of being “competitive” is not caring to compete.
Obviously that’s a difficult act to put on. Couple that with the demand, in any relationship, for honesty. Honestly, though: Can you take the truth without breaking down?
I’m a natural matchmaker; it’s the Jewish mother in me. While people have come to me to find love, I often start by telling them, “Not so fast.” Love is one of those words that carries so much weight in our culture (there’s a reason Mark Zuckerberg chose to make the button a LIKE button, and not a LOVE button), yet many people can’t give me their own definition of it. So they go into this search, spears forward, trying to mount the summit of Love, thereby blinding themselves to all the people in front of them.
People ask all the time how hypnosis can help if you’re suffering from some type of social phobia that is keeping you from dating successfully.
That’s a great question which I address in the following article…