I can imagine what you’re probably thinking after reading this title…“Shyness” is just a part of someone’s personality; why would you ever want to change that?
The problem is not that some people are more timid and others are more outgoing — the problem is that shyness or introversion can often impede someone’s professional or personal development.
If you’re lonely, you don’t deserve to be.
You know you long to connect with another person. What’s more, you know that you need to. Don’t let yourself slump comfortably into believing that you’ll be spending the rest of your life in isolation. Self-deception can be alluring during hard times.
The issue of dating is the perfect embodiment of what I have to offer my clients because it requires equal part hypnosis and life-coaching.
Let’s start with hypnosis. A lot of problems that emerge during the quest for a mate involve anxiety, low self-esteem/low confidence, and bad memories. These are mainly psychological issues that lead to behavioral problems — poor communication during dates, awkwardness, poor sexual performance and more.
Manhattan has the highest percentage of single people in New York City – where the world of love, romance, dating, and sex can simply kill you.
Needless to say, competition is fiercest when part of being “competitive” is not caring to compete.
Obviously that’s a difficult act to put on. Couple that with the demand, in any relationship, for honesty. Honestly, though: Can you take the truth without breaking down?
Jealousy is one of the most vicious, hard-hitting emotions human beings are capable of feeling. Though, no one is exempt from feeling it, and some would even argue that a moderated dosage of jealousy (key word, moderated) can help a relationship stay strong,
I’m here to talk though about the type of jealousy that can ruin relationships; one that is stemmed in irrational obsession and one that manifests itself through violence and abuse. This is the type of jealousy that often leaves the jealous one in a form of self-defeating hysteria, and leaves the victim broken and battered — if not physically, definitely emotionally.
What happens when someone is jealous is that they transfer their own feelings of inadequacy onto their partners; they say to themselves, “If I feel like I’m inferior, she must think I’m inferior as well.” This sort of transference, as irrational as it is, leads to dire consequences.
Hypnosis is very effective in treating jealousy because rather than treat the jealousy as the origin of the problem, it treats the underlying feelings of insecurity. I will be able to shift your subconscious emotional framework from that of low self-esteem to one of self-assurance and confidence.
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