I can imagine what you’re probably thinking after reading this title…“Shyness” is just a part of someone’s personality; why would you ever want to change that?
The problem is not that some people are more timid and others are more outgoing — the problem is that shyness or introversion can often impede someone’s professional or personal development.
Let’s face it: it’s a biological truth that men have a tremendous pressure to be manly. Across all cultures, including ours, the man must be virile, strong, confident and, yes, (in the hetero-identified example) able to please a woman sexually.
So it takes a tremendous amount of courage for a man suffering from erectile dysfunction to admit that he has a problem and seek help.
The very important thing to consider though is to realize that erectile dysfunction is not a sexual problem; it’s a mental problem.
Any sexologist will tell you that the brain is the most important sex organ – more than the genitalia by far.
If you’re lonely, you don’t deserve to be.
You know you long to connect with another person. What’s more, you know that you need to. Don’t let yourself slump comfortably into believing that you’ll be spending the rest of your life in isolation. Self-deception can be alluring during hard times.
The issue of dating is the perfect embodiment of what I have to offer my clients because it requires equal part hypnosis and life-coaching.
Let’s start with hypnosis. A lot of problems that emerge during the quest for a mate involve anxiety, low self-esteem/low confidence, and bad memories. These are mainly psychological issues that lead to behavioral problems — poor communication during dates, awkwardness, poor sexual performance and more.
Manhattan has the highest percentage of single people in New York City – where the world of love, romance, dating, and sex can simply kill you.
Needless to say, competition is fiercest when part of being “competitive” is not caring to compete.
Obviously that’s a difficult act to put on. Couple that with the demand, in any relationship, for honesty. Honestly, though: Can you take the truth without breaking down?